Protecting the rights of female and denouncing any act of
domestic violation, societal abuse and oppression of the female gender are all good
about the so called “feminism”. However, the over sentimentality of most of those
proclaiming to be the sentinel of female gender jeopardizes the objectivity and
the utilitarianism of feminism. Any man whose behaviors and characters are derivatives
of responsible cultural and religious norms and virtues would not have escape
teachings, training and knowledge of the importance of pampering and protecting
female, regardless of the kind of bond that knot him with the female. As a
mother, sister, aunt, friend, colleagues and most importantly wife, the male
gender has been genetically and naturally created to pamper, protect and safeguard
the opposite gender from all sort of challenges be it physical or emotional. While
the female gender also have their own genetic and natural calls to answer, such
as perfecting and amending the over reactionaries, carelessness and some other idiosyncrasies
that are genetically implanted in male genders. It’s now depending on personal differences
to determine what a man actually takes the females around him for. Thus it is
fallacious to say all men are cruel to
woman. The truth is that there is violence everywhere. Everyone is a victim of
societal injustices in one way or the other. Abuse and oppression is a day to
day experience of so many people regardless of their gender or age. Meanwhile,
it is fine if the so called feminists aim at resolving the problems of female
alone but I don’t think it is proper to teach female how to be fiercely independent.
All because these feminists see the world in their own very myopic reasoning as
being patriarchal and they enjoy misleading by tagging the domestic motherly
role, concern and care of the female gender as being aberrant and illogical. I wonder
if most of these feminist sophists were fed from their fathers’ breast and
not their mothers’. The female genders have been created to be mothers! While mothers
are genetically, biologically, religiously and even societally entrusted with the
very crucial responsibility to nourish, concern, pamper, and care for lives
that are created through them. No matter how precariously civilized feminists
can be, they can’t change nature!
R O D U H - RIGHTS
My Opinion, My Understanding and My Experience.... My R I G H T S :)
Wednesday 8 January 2014
Saturday 26 October 2013
The Reality Class
Back then in the university,
examination was our biggest challenge. Every student dislikes being encased in
a hall, and being served question papers and answer sheets for some hours. It was
always gory, terrifying and dreadful. But
then, exam is what we have to do and pass to promote to higher level, therefore
we just have to do it and pass it –like it or not. And sometimes we would fantasize
a miracle should come and eradicate the dreadful examination system; but no
miracle came.
After serious lessons and lecturing
by our lecturers, plus the preparation time that would be given to us to get
ready for the exam, students would also ask lecturers for tips. They want to
know which part of their modules the lecturers would ask in exam. Students
would dislike any lecturer that is not ready to give tips. They would badmouth
him/her. Some students can even decide to drop the course and wait for the next
semester. And after all those institutionalized
supports to help student pass, it won’t satisfy them. Students would remain disassembled,
desperate and restive, just because they can’t dare to fail. And whenever students
see the chance to interact or copy each other in exam halls, they would never
hesitate to do so.
Those tricky to-dos worked for us. We
passed out and we were so happy, believing that there will be no more
terrifying exam papers in our life anymore. We were too juvenile; we were so
melodramatic about our passing-out with endless celebration and jubilation. All
because there will be no more examinations. We knew nothing then that our
graduation was an indirect matriculation to a new class. A new class called
REALITY! In this class, an entirely different and very odd pedagogy is adopted
for teaching. We were so childish and we ignore to notice that, exams in this new
class will no more be in halls and no more papers. There won’t be any study
week before exams, no more tips and in fact this class is more strict to the
extent that we won’t be seeing the teacher that is teaching us; thus we can’t
intimidate anyone again with our bad mouthing. In this new class, we can’t drop
course and it is not wise and not encouraging to copy answers, because you and
your seatmates are given different questions. More strangely, lessons will be taught
after examinations and not before. In this class, even though you pass or fail
an exam, the same exam can be brought to you again and again; everything
depends on your unseen lecturer. In the reality class, there is no seniority. A
senior can be forced to do juniors exam and vice versa.
The more challenging thing is that,
in the reality class, only one course is being taught with different modules
for different students. The course code is “LIFE”. The unseen lecturer is super
powerful, omnipresent and super-high so you can never cheat on him. He alone is
the proprietor, the examiner and the creator of the new class. The tips that
help in passing exams in reality are: DO’A (prayers) and total submission.
Thursday 24 October 2013
Friends.. Enemies... and Frenemies
Friends are those that love you, care for you, protect and appreciate you and always ready to absolve your flaws and forgive your shortcomings. they share both sad and happy experiences with you. it will always be peaceable between you and them because there is no need to be careful around them or wary of them. On the other hand, Enemies are those that don't care about you, they don't like you, they don't wish you well. They are always ready to zing your opinion and they are naturally cynical about you. They enjoy gloating at your failures and your achievements will always irritate them. It is not too dangerous to be around them, because you know they are your Enemies, you are suppose to be careful with them. The sad thing is that, this life would have been so easy and peaceful if there is no third categorization of relationship. There are also "FRENEMIES", those are the most perilous set of human being, they are neither a friend nor an enemy. they won't hate you truly and they won't like you sincerely. they will be utterly a supporter but inherently they are your antagonist. Because you don't know who they actually are, what they actually hold against you and what is really your offense to them, it is almost impossible to impress them. Unfortunately, this life is naturally imbalance, friends are always rare to get and enemies won't linger too much around you, but Frenemies won't stay with you per se and won't go away for good. They will just be a life appendage and you will have no other option than to learn diplomacy. Much more more love to my sincere friends !!! I am forever sorry to my Enemies !!! To my Frenemies; I never know what to say !!!!
Thursday 17 October 2013
Tuesday 17 September 2013
I am yet to understand
A friend of
mine told me recently that if he ever has a chance to preside over a country as
a president, he will enact secularity or force atheism on every citizenry of
that nation. He said because “religion” has been the main cause and force
behind most of our societal unrest, dispute and diversity to mention the least.
My friend believes that religion that is supposed to be a unifying force has
otherwise proven the opposite. At first, I wasn't sure if I should agree or disagree
with my friend, because whatever I decide has to be justified convincingly. After
I had pondered deeply to my friend’s opinion, I also affirmed the fact that religion
has been the usually proclaimed reason for so many insurgencies nowadays. It is
the reason why so many children have been made orphans. The main reason why so
many women have been turned widow. And why so many family has been made
homeless. It is also the so reason the peace in some community has been
forcefully exchanged with brutal bedlam. It also the sole reason why the rivers
in some cities have been flowing with reddish water heavily mixed with human
blood. When I remember all of these, I was closely forced to agree with my friend,
while in retrospect I realize it will be too unwisely erroneous to push the blame
of those ruthless atrocities on a divinely designed and Godly structured system
(Religion). Something else is responsible; something yet unfathomable by either
my friend or I myself.
Thursday 4 July 2013
Your Friend
When your friend is evil harming and hurting people around and you think your own friendship responsibility is to cover him and support him and accommodate him, while others keep on crying from his brutal character. i think you are hurting and harming yourself the most, because the severity of all he has been doing to common outsiders will not be comparable to yours when the time comes. of course, he has been your friend, he will surely know where and how to plant his harm in you perfectly. However, our noble Prophet disallow us from detesting harmful friends he encourage us to help them stop their detrimental evil behavior. PEACEEEEE
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: انصر أخاك ظالماً أو مظلوماً. قالوا: يا رسول الله! هذا ننصره مظلوماً، فكيف ننصره ظالماً؟ قال: تأخذ على يديه
قال رسول الله صلى الله عليه وسلم: انصر أخاك ظالماً أو مظلوماً. قالوا: يا رسول الله! هذا ننصره مظلوماً، فكيف ننصره ظالماً؟ قال: تأخذ على يديه
Tuesday 28 May 2013
The Media Bus
Media is the Bus for all social crisis; Bigotry is the engine oil; Prejudice serve as petrol; the full-lights are Sentiments. Seats in the bus are often Cultural or Religious Diversity; Audience gullibility is the perfect tire. The Bus always have different drivers and that's often the Power that be and they are also the owners, so you've got nowhere to lodge complain whenever you are jammed by this Bus. The Bus uses different roads like Islamophobia, Terrorism and Politics to get to different Bus-stations and the most accessed ones are Stereotypes, Imperialism and Framing. Don't forget it is a commercial bus that follow only the map of the owners, its Tickets are cheap for everyone and it is big enough to accommodate numberless passengers... Mind you, whenever i choose not to enter that Bus that means I've gotten a better reliable transportation to the Truth.
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